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Your support of BPD Alliance helps families and individuals affected by borderline personality disorder find understanding, skills, and hope when they need it most. Every donation directly funds evidence-based education, peer-led programs, and advocacy efforts that reduce stigma and expand access to effective care.

BPD Alliance is the nation’s leading grassroots organization dedicated exclusively to borderline personality disorder. Through programs such as Family Connections™ and Managing Suicidality & Trauma Recovery, we provide practical tools, trustworthy information, and community support to families throughout the world at no cost to participants.

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BPD Alliance
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Help us ensure no one faces BPD alone.

Provide families with practical, life-changing education and skills

Through our programs, families learn to communicate more effectively, observe limits, and support healing while reducing conflict and isolation.

Build supportive communities

Caregivers and individuals discover they are not alone by joining a network grounded in understanding, compassion, and shared experience.

Expand awareness and reduce stigma

Your support powers advocacy, professional education, and outreach efforts that challenge misinformation and open doors to treatment.

Every gift helps people living with borderline personality disorder and their loved ones find support, dignity, and hope.

After completing the Family Connections course over the course of 12 weeks I feel so grateful for the new skills that I’ve added to my toolbox. I came away with new ways to think about things and also learned to respond to my loved one in better ways.

~ DM, Minnesota

After many years of feeling alone as a family member of someone with BPD, I have never felt so comforted. Meeting others in the same situation, and learning from them, has been more helpful than years of therapy. Thank you!

~ CG, Washington DC

Because of the Family Connections course, I’m now a better version of myself. I have learnt so many skills that can be used in ALL my relationships. I’m extremely grateful for the experience and would highly recommend the course!

~ DH, Florida

Being part of Family Connections was extremely comforting and supportive. It allowed for real learning and sharing and I came away with specific skills and a better understanding of how to support my loved one with chronic emotiona dysregulation. It is so important – I only wish I had known about it sooner.

~ NL, Washington

Being part of Family Connections was extremely comforting and supportive. It allowed for real learning and sharing and I came away with specific skills and a better understanding of how to support my loved one with chronic emotion dysregulation. It is so important — I only wish I had known about it sooner.

~ NL, Washington

Both MSTR and Family Connections are life-saving! Thank you so very much for providing help to those who are in need! BPD Alliance classes are an effective tool for those ready to make positive changes in their lives and affect positive change in the people around them.

~ AM, Texas

Both the structured learning and personal stories in this course helped me to understand what my son with BPD is living through and to understand that I’m not alone in this struggle. I think I have more compassion for him and more tools to help myself as a result. I’m so grateful for this resource.

~ BF, Massachusetts

I am also incredibly grateful to NEABPD for organizing and providing the Family Connections course for free. It has changed my life for the better and drastically improved my marriage. I feel much more capable using DBT skills to better communicate with my wife and other people in my life, and feel a sense of control that I was severely lacking prior to the course. I cannot recommend this highly enough for anyone who has a loved one with BPD and is struggling.

~ JT, Ohio

Early in the course my wife and I recognized that we were participating with “our people”: other parents who faced the same challenges, struggles, and heartache. We not only learned new skills but also felt included in a community of others who love their children who suffer with BPD and want to be the best parents we can be for them. Participating in Family Connections gave us hope and strengthened us for the journey that continues.

~ JD, Indiana

Family Connections has taught me skills that help my whole family. For the first time, I can interact and see that I am making a difference. These skills allow me to build relationships that I almost thought were broken forever. I can hear things in a different way. If we all were taught these skills as kids, the world would truly be a better place. Thank you for giving us the greatest gift of knowledge and support.

~ AR, Texas

Family Connections is a life-changing course for those who want to have a relationship with a loved one who has been diagnosed with BPD. I was fumbling around in the dark until the skills I learned in the course lit a path toward progress.

~ MJ, Vermont

Family Connections is an amazing class where they teach you skills to help you help your person but it’s more than that. It’s a time where you meet other families that are going through the same thing, it’s a time where you can say what you want/need and no one will judge you, in fact most others are nodding along with you. It’s simply a community of support and skills and hope! I’m so glad I took the class and now my husband has signed up as well after seeing how beneficial the class has been!

~ SS, Texas

Family Connections opened a door to a compassionate community that has similar struggles. It made me feel not so alone and not a horrible parent. The skills I learned helped me immediately “triage” some big issues effectively and calmly. Thank you for creating a non judgemental place to learn and grow.

~ NR, Florida

Family Connections provided concrete skills with clear examples to help with navigating the extreme challenges of having a child with mental illness. I feel so much less alone understanding both what other people are going through and real life strategies to work on how I approach the situation. It has alleviated fear and anxiety for which I am very grateful!

~ HS, New York

Family Connections provided us not just with skills, but with community. We shared our joys and struggles, and helped each other through profound empathy and radical acceptance. Our family is more complete and whole because of BPD Alliance.

~ LM, New York

By the Numbers

Every number represents lives touched and communities strengthened. For more than two decades, the BPD Alliance has educated, connected, and advocated for those affected by BPD.

More than 100
national and international conferences since 2002

Over 40,000
Family Connections graduates

More than 1,200
trained facilitators worldwide

The largest media archive on BPD and emotion dysregulation

BPD Awareness Month officially recognized in the United States of America

Congressional testimony and federal engagement expanding access to care